Criteria for Prospective Husband's Desire
Kamis, 08 Desember 2011
Assalamu'alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh
Yes ukhti fillah ..
Has a myriad of criteria for potential mates kosher we are not wrong. But keep in mind that in this world nothing is perfect. It needs to be realistic, like the proverbial "hang your ambition to the skies, but the foot remains grounded on earth". Real love does not come from the qualifications that we make. Because we never know when, where and with whom we will fall in love and then take the decision to get married. Therefore give the opportunity to love to say hello to simplify the criteria. Truly happy people who were not the ones who get what he wants, but someone who could appreciate, care for and maintain what is already diraih.Demikian also if there is someone who believed religion and good akhlaqnya sincerely and seriously want to build a loving household with maghligai we are thankful and take that opportunity, do not waste because we do not know when that opportunity will come again.
"If anyone comes to woo the girl, and you are happy in religion and then akhlaqnya kawinkanlah" (Narrated by At-Tirmidhi from abu Hurayrah)
Yes ukhti fillah .. In determining a candidate companion of life for women as recommended by the Prophet which apparently forms, offspring, property and most importantly has a noble morality. In domestic life is not limited by matter of seconds, minutes, hours or days, but tens of years until the bond of eternal hope in this world and hereafter. For that, choose a good husband who can take us to the ultimate happiness. So good prospective husband was like what?
1. Muslims, devout and good akhlaqnya.
A man asked his son Hasan Ali: I have a daughter, who is presumably that should be her husband? Hasan ibn Ali replied: "A man who devoted to God, because if he is happy he will respect that, and if he is angry not mendzaliminya."
2. Fasiq rather than classes of people, those who corrupt and depraved religion and likes to sin / disobedience.
3. Likes to hang out with people who are pious
No doubt that your friends can hang out to form a person's character. If he hangs out with people who are pious then he will carry over into a better direction because one of the characters who remind each other if the pious is a mistake.
4. Responsible, diligent work and effort, optimistic, do not like off the promise and wished
The kind of guy like this for a married will bertangggung responsible for child and wife.
5. Of good family, obey and respect their parents
If he is someone who rebel against their parents most likely would apply if he is married to his wife too rebellious.
6. Physically and mentally healthy
Husband is the leader of the household therefore physical and spiritual health should get attention.
7. Diligent improve
People who are good not perfect without mistakes but he is one who realizes his mistake and then hasten to correct it.
8. Noting the appearance
Not only a beautiful face that catches the heart, but a neat appearance and matching can cause a good impression so that by itself would have an attraction.
One thing to remember .. yes ukhti fillah Do not ever imagine that the pious man who had no defects and deficiencies. They are also human beings who make mistakes. But over time by learning to truly be able to improve the quality of self. From this we learn to understand the flaws and learn to complement each other.
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